Wedding Ceremonies in Thailand
RELIGIOUS OR OTHERWISE, the concept of
uniting two people in marriage is universal.
While religion is still a fundamental part of marriage all over
the world, Koh Samui Island Weddings recognises that there are many
different ways to be married and tries to bring as many styles of
ceremonies to you as possible.
Non - Religious Weddings in Thailand
BECAUSE THE TRADITIONAL ritual and words of a religious
ceremony no longer fits in with everyone's outlook on life,
Humanist weddings are becoming, by far, the most conventional Koh
Samui wedding request.
While a Humanist wedding may still be as formal as a church
wedding, the religious elements are replaced by vows, readings or
music that have real meaning to you.
Christian Weddings in Thailand
CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE IS a solemn declaration made in the presence
of God that also serves as as worship service. Guests can also
participate by sharing hymns or readings.
As the Bible gives no specific pattern or order of service to
define what should be included in a religious wedding ceremony,
there is room for creativity the design of your service, however a
Christian ceremony should make room for worship, question of
intent, exchange of vows, reflection and declaration.
Procession
Also applicable in a Catholic wedding, the order of arrival
& departure to your wedding can be based on inclusion of any of
thethe procession / recession at your ceremony (order of arrival /
departure) for the following members of the bridal party:
- Groomsmen / Groom
- Mothers
- Bridesmaids
- Maid / Matron of Honour
- Ring Bearer
- Flower Girl
- Bride / Father of the Bride
Catholic Weddings in Thailand
THE SYMBOLISM OF your Catholic ceremony is that it is God's
doing and that, in marriage, you are bound together by God for as
long as you both shall live.
Order of Service
Standard Catholic Wedding ceremony format.
- Procession & Entrance Music
- Liturgy of the Word
- Marriage Rites
- Lords Prayer & Nupital Blessing
- Departure & Recessional Music
Buddhist Weddings in Thailand
THE ESSENCE OF a Buddhist wedding ceremony, while appearing
beautiful and somewhat mystical, is still easy to understand.
Koh Samui Island Weddings attempts to provide you with
information and options you still may not get else-where as part of
a Buddhist wedding in Thailand.
Marriage is considered a social occasion, rather than a
religious one and although traditions vary, faith in marriage
remains the same, with the harmony of a couple at its core. And as
long as your commitment to family life is that of a Buddhist's, you
are considered married, even without formal registration.
Thai Buddhist Ceremony Format
The standard ceremony format in Thailand is more in
observance of cultural norms, rather than any Buddhist ceremony
requirements.
Monks, usually seated upon a raised platform, will be waiting
for the bride and groom's arrival. Guests, if present, will be
seated, usually on the floor, as it is customary not to raise ones
head above that of the Monks.
Kneeling, you will light candles, incense and place flowers at a
shrine erected to Buddha. Then, with your hands placed together and
heads down, in the Thai gesture of greeting (otherwise known as a
'wai'), to the Monks, the ceremony will then take place with
blessings asked for your union, chanted in the Buddhist language of
Sanskrit.
Two head garlands, tied together with string, will be placed
over your heads. String from these will also be tied over the heads
of the monks, then somewhere up high as the connection point
between our world and the spirit world, so that blessings from this
world will join you.
Blessed water will then be sprinkled lightly over your heads,
symbolic strings tied around your wrists, and special ointment
applied at three points on your forehead.
Gifts and donations to the temple of enveloped money, care
packs, incense & lotus flowers are given in thanks for the
blessing. After or prior to the ceremony, a banquet is prepared for
the temple or monks present, depending on whether you choose a
morning or afternoon ceremony.
Water Blessing Ceremony
Blessed water filled with rose petals is scooped from a bowl
by a traditional conch shell water holder, and sprinkled by those
present at the wedding over your hands which will be held together
over the bowl. As water is sprinkled, this is also the time to
congratulate and offer best wishes to the couple (after which, it
is then customary to party!)
Muslim Weddings in Thailand
Your Muslim wedding ceremony (Nikkah) can be conducted at any
location by Ko Samui's resident Imam.
Mutual consent is of great importance for the marriage to be
legal. After the Imam reads verses from the Quran, the Nikaah is
complete after proposal and acceptance. A dowry is then offered and
marriage contract (the Nikaahnaama) can be registered.
Chinese Weddings in Thailand
IN CONTRAST TO the many elaborate preparations and rituals of a
Chinese wedding, the ceremony itself is quite simple.
Koh Samui Island Weddings is available to assist either with
your choice of pre and post wedding events here in Thailand and the
ceremony itself.